I got very excited when Chris found this blog through Facebook and contacted me to let me know she was a 5 year survivor of Stage 4 Pancreatic cancer! I asked her if she would share with us, and she agreed! In addition, she started the very cool Purple Iris Foundation to raise awareness, you can check that out here: http://www.purpleirisfoundation.com/
Here is her story:
My
name is Christina Parrish and I was diagnosed with Stage 4 Pancreatic
cancer in June of 2008.
Now,
rewind to about to 5 years before that. I was running a daycare and
friends had noticed that I had dropped ALOT of weight (40lbs). I
also had constant digestive issues and was given every pill under the
sun for it. Nothing worked. I got tired of going to the Doctor and
just learned to live with it. Well, one day during my workout, I was
stretching and I noticed a bump protruding under my left ribcage. It
hurt to touch it. I was scared, but decided to just let it go.
About
3 weeks later, I started getting excruciating back pain (just under
my shoulder blades).
I
just thought it was old sports injuries creeping up on me, and old
age. About 2 weeks later, I began to feel just AWFUL! I had never
felt this bad in my life. I left work and was at the Doctor’s the
next day. My Doctor was concerned because I never was sick. They
ordered X-rays, and MRI and blood work and a CT scan and then came
the 4 day wait! It was the longest 4 days of my life! I got the
call to come into the office. My PA comes into the exam room and is
visibly moved.
She
then told me that I had a mass in my Pancreas and numerous spots in
my liver. I asked if there was a way to take it out and she shook her
head and said “No”. This was the day my life was turned upside
down cancer. But, it would be the only day that I let this diagnosis
have the best of me. From there was my meeting with a local
Oncologist. I was given 6 months to live, with treatment. This made
me SOOO angry! I was 40 years old! How could I be dying! I then
sought out a 2nd
opinion in Boston. They told me that they would recommend the same
treatment as my hometown Oncologist. I was so upset that no one
would give me a fighting chance!! I decided, early on, that I would
not let my diagnosis rule my life. With research, I found a perfect
fit for me and treatment for my cancer. It has made all the
difference.
I
decided, early on, that I would not let my diagnosis rule my life.
Of course, there is a new “normal” that you have to acclimate to.
But, isn’t life about changing and adjusting to new things?